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Adults find it extraordinarily difficult to give children the respect they deserve. |
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When the problems you face are real, you really want to solve them. |
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There is no point in rebelling against yourself. |
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It is difficult for schools to avoid suppressing a child’s natural altruism. |
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It is easier to run a school of conformists than a school of individuals, but conformists, by definition, can never be themselves. |
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When you have a job as a grown-up you are only asked to do things that you can do correctly. Why are schools always asking children to do things half of which they will get wrong? |
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Only teachers and customers in shops are called sir and miss. |
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If I make you call me sir I deny social equality. |
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Teaching is not a matter of making children learn; it is a matter of making sure you don’t get in their way. |
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Teachers know more about their subjects than children do; children know more about childhood. |
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We need to help adolescents not to be afraid of making fools of themselves. |
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You must never destroy a child’s confidence in his or her own judgment. |
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Preaching is an ineffective way of encouraging virtue. |
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Punishment creates rebels. |
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Teachers need to be able to admire their pupils. |
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Admiration nurtures ambition. |
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Condescending praise induces disgust. |
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It is wonderful when an adult and a child discover something together that neither of them knew before. |
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One of the aspects of good teaching is good listening. |
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What you discover for yourself is vastly more memorable than what you are told. |
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The best learning happens without you noticing. |
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Learning is a pleasure; it does not need to be enforced. |
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It is a delight to understand something new. |
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There is no need to be in a hurry to grow up. |
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At Sands life and education overlap. Children really cook lunch, really redecorate the classrooms, really appoint the staff, really answer the phone in the office, really deal with problems of behaviour. |
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Honesty is more important than fear; to demand obedience is to risk putting fear above honesty. |
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When children trust their teachers, no one needs to bluff. |
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What matters is doing things for the right reasons. |
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Children naturally want to succeed. Why do so many teachers treat them as if they wanted to fail? |
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For most adolescents school uniform is a badge of inadequacy. |
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You don’t need to humiliate children to teach them. |
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There is no need to use force to get people to do something that they can see to be in their own interest. |
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Democratic schools avoid the error of trying to prevent children from helping one another. |
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Rules, by requiring certain types of behaviour, tend to turn children against them. |
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If you are treated like an ignorant lout, you behave like an ignorant lout. |
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Teachers must give children what they need without worrying about whether they deserve it. |
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Happiness is an important part of school; you cannot learn easily when you are unhappy. |
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It is hard to learn anything that seems entirely irrelevant. |
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Concern for others is a more important guide to behaviour than obedience to rules. |
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Children’s self-respect only flourishes if they are respected. |
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Where children see moral issues, adults often only see questions of expediency. |
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Good teachers are humble. |